do you long for love-
but don’t know how to get it?
I help you reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your sense of worth—so you and your relationships can thrive without costing you everything.
🜂 This is where the cycle ends.
🜁 This is where you come back to yourself.
What do you do?
Somatic intimacy coaching for tender givers, strong hearts, and anyone tired of feeling like “too much” or never enough.
This is where you return to your truth—by reconnecting to something greater than the story you’ve been living: the wild fire within.
What People Are Saying
“Dani is a tremendous guide and witness to the female life experience. She exudes levels of authenticity and openness to others that I could only dream of. She lovingly held space for me and offered me guidance and tools that helped me listen to my body and begin working through the layers of trauma responses I had created. If you are ready to take a deep dive and come out with a more embodied life, Dani is your girl.”
— Amy j.
“I loved how Dani supported me through my current issues, and somehow also kept me focused on my personal growth. I gained so much insight about myself each week, and I feel like I can provide stronger support for myself from within.”
— Erika P.
Working with Dani was such a powerful and life-giving experience. I felt very held and seen in her presence, which helped me to feel safe to explore deep parts of myself and my experience. From my work with Dani, I brought healing and awareness to my freeze response, which was such a gift. I hope to work with her again in the future because I received so much from our time together. She is one of the most intuitive and attuned people I have worked with and I highly recommend her as a coach!
— ERIN s.
PLEASURE NOTES
Pleasure Notes is my personal newsletter where I share intimate reflections, embodied practices, and words of wisdom to help you break free from old conditioning and reclaim your pleasure. These aren’t just emails—they’re invitations to step deeper into yourself, to feel more, and to live unapologetically alive.
💌 Sign up to receive your first Pleasure Note and start rewriting the rules of intimacy—on your terms.
When you stop abandoning yourself, love finally has a place to land.
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When people feel safe to express their truth, connections become more honest, intimate, and fulfilling—whether in love, friendships, or community.
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When we allow ourselves to feel fully, we hold space for others to do the same. A world where emotions are welcomed—not repressed—is a world with more understanding, healing, and connection.
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When one person dares to be authentic, it gives others permission to do the same. A world where self-expression is celebrated is a world where creativity, passion, and truth thrive.
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The more we reclaim our truth, the more we create a world that is safer, more honest, and more deeply connected—for ourselves and for future generations.
When Love Feels Out of Reach, Start with Pleasure.
You long for love—but don’t know how to get it.
Maybe you’ve given everything and still felt unseen.
Maybe you’ve been the strong one so long you forgot how to fall apart.
Maybe love feels out of reach because your body still believes it’s not safe.
I work with people who’ve spent their lives in survival—performing strength, silencing needs, chasing love, or trying not to feel too much.
People who are kind, caring, capable… and secretly exhausted.
Healing through pleasure is the radical act of coming home to yourself.
It’s not about indulgence—it’s about reclamation.
Reclaiming your voice.
Your softness.
Your truth.
Your right to feel good again.
When we work with the body and invite pleasure, we:
Retrain the nervous system – so your body learns that love and joy are safe.
Balance intensity with expansion – you don’t have to live in shutdown or high alert.
Rewire old patterns – moving from survival to presence, from proving to receiving.
Anchor healing in the body – so it’s not just understood, it’s lived and felt.
This isn’t about fixing you. You’re not broken.
It’s about remembering who you were before you learned to abandon yourself for love.
And discovering who you get to become now.
does this sound like you?
You give love easily, but struggle to receive it without guilt, fear, or shutting down.
You’re the strong one—held together on the outside, but quietly unraveling inside.
You long for deep connection, but keep ending up in “almost” relationships or feeling unseen.
You’ve spent years doing what’s expected—pleasing, performing, holding it all together—while slowly losing touch with yourself.
You’re tired of surviving. You want to feel safe in your body, clear in your boundaries, and worthy of the love you crave.
If you nodded yes to any of these, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to keep doing it this way.
There’s another path. One where you’re not just surviving—but finally receiving.
Where love isn’t something you chase—it’s something you feel, deeply, from within.
Trade self-abandonment for real connection.
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